UPDATE: See Jonathan's post for a more accurate representation of the ceremony.
Oh, and here's what I'm doing about the name thing: nothing. Today the guy at the court house said, "Okay, so when you get your marriage license, you're going to need to take it to the DMV and to the Social Security office." Confused, I said, "What?" He said, "Well, to change your name." Too much trouble! I hadn't planned on changing it anyway. My position on the issue is that I'm not going to change my name, and of course I prefer that everyone say "Clancy Ratliff" for the sake of accuracy, but if family members end up addressing cards to "Jonathan and Clancy Goodwin" or the like, it's no big deal.